Today, people just jump into relationship without going through the process and school of friendship and it has led them to various bad situations. Sometimes they will be like I don’t understand him/her again. Why will you understand? You don’t even know anything about him, what you know is that he is cute, loving, caring and all that because he buys some things for you. Possibly, you don’t even know his likes and dislike talk more of his character or attitude. You think that may be he loves me and I love him so it’s going to work out, we are in love already. NO, it doesn’t work that way. Sometimes I wonder why some people act the way they do. You met him today, liked and loved him today, kissed today, some even engage into having sex just on the first date. My dear it’s “lust not love”. You just saw him and you are off (love at first sight). NO, that is not the way, you have to keep cool. By the way, why will you just see someone for the first ti...